Here is my experience with Zanders......
Zander was a douche that lived in the early 00's in Grand Forks when I did. Zander like to treat his female acquaintance like crap, (lets call her Dora). When Zander went home for weekends and holidays, Dora would come over and we would spend hours on end exploring. Our most exciting discovery being that Dora liked a thumb in the butt. Great for Dora, bad for Zander. Butt thats life, I guess. :;:huh (see what i did there?)