You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. I've tried to treat women with respect and decency all my life because that's the way I was raised. Men traditionally have been expected to make the first move and now we're being told it's not acceptable. Over the years I've been told by several different women, sometimes years later, that, "If you would have just tried harder and I would have given in." or "You should have asked and I would have gone to bed with you.". I think if a woman is attracted to you she won't mind being groped but if you're not sufficiently desirable to her she'll be offended and you may go to jail. What's a guy to do. I'm not saying men should grab every woman nearby just to find out but it's a dilemma. One guy told me one time that his method was to grab every woman he wanted. He said you'll get slapped 49 times out of 50 but boy that 50th one will make all the slaps worth it. Not my idea of how to treat a woman but I guess each to his own. The guy isn't a politician so he may get away with it.