update - i have a friend who advised me to get away from the 380... he has 25 years experience as a loe in a major US city, and was also a contractor training allies in the sand box for 3 years after that... he told me a story about a guy who got shot in a drive by shooting that was almost normal after taking 5 shots in the chest from a 380... just cannot get the velocity and energy for reliable stopping power with that cartridge...
he was an old wheel gun guy like me that was forced to glock decades ago... after many years of depending on them, he is sold, and glocks are now about the only handguns he owns, and the only ones he and his family carries... it isn't as sexy as the ppk, but looks the same concealed i guess... ballistics > looks...
my girls and i are now carrying glock 43's and 48's with +p+ ammo...