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<blockquote data-quote="db-2" data-source="post: 221788" data-attributes="member: 4743">KDM:More power to you and I commend you for what you plan.I remember my one grandfather being taken care of by more than one of his kids ( his wife die earlier in life).&nbsp; My mother had to do things to care for her father-in-law that I feel most today would not.&nbsp; When I brought my mother to our home for a short stay my wife did things for her that I was not comfortable doing.&nbsp; Yesterday this is how a lot of old people where taken care of but not the norm for today.Be that as it may be and for whatever reason I understand those who will not take care of their parents and like i said I do commend you for what you plan.&nbsp; And there maybe things that you will not be able to do or are unable to do for your parents in your home.&nbsp; As a parent I do not want or expect one of my kids to have to take care of us when I know what that care can and may or will consist of.&nbsp; One being bedridden may require 100% of your attention.&nbsp; So I will not judge either way on this.&nbsp; Yes I feel guilty about putting my parents in a nursing home and then trying to protect some of their assets.&nbsp; But I would do the same again.&nbsp; No way they could take care of each other (mind was hurt for both and mom's body was shot) and for dad it would of been better if he had passed away ten years sooner.&nbsp; Needed the chemical arrest to control the anger.&nbsp; db</blockquote>

[QUOTE="db-2, post: 221788, member: 4743"] KDM: More power to you and I commend you for what you plan. I remember my one grandfather being taken care of by more than one of his kids ( his wife die earlier in life). My mother had to do things to care for her father-in-law that I feel most today would not. When I brought my mother to our home for a short stay my wife did things for her that I was not comfortable doing. Yesterday this is how a lot of old people where taken care of but not the norm for today. Be that as it may be and for whatever reason I understand those who will not take care of their parents and like i said I do commend you for what you plan. And there maybe things that you will not be able to do or are unable to do for your parents in your home. As a parent I do not want or expect one of my kids to have to take care of us when I know what that care can and may or will consist of. One being bedridden may require 100% of your attention. So I will not judge either way on this. Yes I feel guilty about putting my parents in a nursing home and then trying to protect some of their assets. But I would do the same again. No way they could take care of each other (mind was hurt for both and mom's body was shot) and for dad it would of been better if he had passed away ten years sooner. Needed the chemical arrest to control the anger. db [/QUOTE]

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