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<blockquote data-quote="NodakBuckeye" data-source="post: 54414" data-attributes="member: 714">My brother in law had to pay 1500 a month for his 2 boys to his ex.&nbsp; He also paid for their insurance, most of school sport fees, school supplies, etc...&nbsp; she decide that was not enough and got another 400 a month.&nbsp; I have 3 kids, 5 to 10 years old and we do not spend nearly that much on our 3 and they have a good life by anyone's measure. I have always thought it should be ran something like a flex spending account, money goes in an bills are reiembursed and a portion given each month to go towards utilities and everyday expense and a weekly allowance to the minor when they become teens and thus money sponges.&nbsp; Anything leftover should be in account to be used by the child for college, etc... after they reach 21 or so.His ex and her new &quot;man&quot; always had new vehicles, took nice vacations, etc...&nbsp; well beyond their means.&nbsp; Overpaying for child support pales in comparasion to being a deadbeat dad for sure but all the money paid needs to gonto the kids and a portion of household expenses and not for the ex to be comfy until the kids hit 18.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="NodakBuckeye, post: 54414, member: 714"] My brother in law had to pay 1500 a month for his 2 boys to his ex. He also paid for their insurance, most of school sport fees, school supplies, etc... she decide that was not enough and got another 400 a month. I have 3 kids, 5 to 10 years old and we do not spend nearly that much on our 3 and they have a good life by anyone's measure. I have always thought it should be ran something like a flex spending account, money goes in an bills are reiembursed and a portion given each month to go towards utilities and everyday expense and a weekly allowance to the minor when they become teens and thus money sponges. Anything leftover should be in account to be used by the child for college, etc... after they reach 21 or so. His ex and her new "man" always had new vehicles, took nice vacations, etc... well beyond their means. Overpaying for child support pales in comparasion to being a deadbeat dad for sure but all the money paid needs to gonto the kids and a portion of household expenses and not for the ex to be comfy until the kids hit 18. [/QUOTE]

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