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Message: <blockquote data-quote="lunkerslayer" data-source="post: 386672" data-attributes="member: 217">I'm sure espringers that eulogy would be short and sweet but it still doesn't change that the service isn't for  just anyone it's for a person that was loved unconditionally regardless of their faults. Granted that person whoever they are knows that they were filled with moments of real misery that was inflicted on to another person most likely could be caused by that person's poor choice of habits and they were suffering perhaps for majority of their lives But our job as to going to a burial service is to forgive that person so they may rest in peace and in turn we can live the rest of.our lives in peace.Most wakes that I have gone to anyone could go up and say their peace, I went up to share a few moments about my aunt who was taken from rheumatoid arthritis that damaged her lungs, I said some things many probably already knew but I also made the patrons laugh about she was a very strong willed opinionated person who wasn't afraid to tell me when I was messing up but I also made sure to let them know that no matter what she would never turn her back on you and she was always there if you needed someone to tell you exactly what I was doing wrong. That's love to me and that's the things everyone wants to know about even the things that some people may have not cared too much about but that was the relationship that had with my aunt that I loved very much.</blockquote>