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<blockquote data-quote="BrokenBackJack" data-source="post: 112250" data-attributes="member: 642">You had both better be honest with each other.&nbsp; A marriage means yours, mine, and ours.&nbsp; Basically it is all ours.&nbsp; If you are having to buy things and hide it from the other, you two should not be married.&nbsp; Bad way to start or have a relationship.&nbsp; Best marry someone with the same interests and things will go much better for both of you.I have friends that do what you suggest and things have gone south in a hurry when the other one finds out.&nbsp; Little things turn into big things in a hurry!&nbsp; Be honest above all.&nbsp; Guns have been an excellent investment if they are taken care of.&nbsp; Sit down and talk with her about this NOW not after you are married.&nbsp; If you can't come to an agreement on them now it is much better than a divorce down the road.&nbsp; I have heard from way too many guys and gals that if our marriage doesn't work out we will just get a divorce.&nbsp; NOT a way to start a marriage.&nbsp; Not an expert by any means but being in my 60's have seen and done many things and you learn by doing and watching.&nbsp; Also you learn from your mistakes and others too.&nbsp; My bride and i like the same things and occasionally we have disagreeements on purchasing things.&nbsp; We sit down and talk it out the pros and the cons.&nbsp; Sometimes it goes my way sometimes hers.&nbsp; Not a big deal and nothing to get mad about.&nbsp; A couple months down the road and sometimes you realize they WERE right on the subject.&nbsp; Before buying make sure you can afford it and don't put it on a credit card and make payments. &nbsp;Payments are a whole nother story, don't go there if you don't absolutely have too.GOOD LUCK</blockquote>

[QUOTE="BrokenBackJack, post: 112250, member: 642"] You had both better be honest with each other. A marriage means yours, mine, and ours. Basically it is all ours. If you are having to buy things and hide it from the other, you two should not be married. Bad way to start or have a relationship. Best marry someone with the same interests and things will go much better for both of you. I have friends that do what you suggest and things have gone south in a hurry when the other one finds out. Little things turn into big things in a hurry! Be honest above all. Guns have been an excellent investment if they are taken care of. Sit down and talk with her about this NOW not after you are married. If you can't come to an agreement on them now it is much better than a divorce down the road. I have heard from way too many guys and gals that if our marriage doesn't work out we will just get a divorce. NOT a way to start a marriage. Not an expert by any means but being in my 60's have seen and done many things and you learn by doing and watching. Also you learn from your mistakes and others too. My bride and i like the same things and occasionally we have disagreeements on purchasing things. We sit down and talk it out the pros and the cons. Sometimes it goes my way sometimes hers. Not a big deal and nothing to get mad about. A couple months down the road and sometimes you realize they WERE right on the subject. Before buying make sure you can afford it and don't put it on a credit card and make payments. Payments are a whole nother story, don't go there if you don't absolutely have too. GOOD LUCK [/QUOTE]

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