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<blockquote data-quote="db-2" data-source="post: 145147" data-attributes="member: 4743">five kids and all have left home some time ago.&nbsp; Experience this to a certain degree.&nbsp; Having kids is great and so is the risk and heartaches that never go away.&nbsp; Some get lucky while others experience the grief.&nbsp; Not sure why but for me it seems a lot of families did not have to go through what me and the wife did.&nbsp; But I know that is not true as the other side is always greener and others have had it worse.There are times your thoughts turn to vengeance for what happen but in the end one needs to deal with it, remember it and get to the next day.&nbsp; Not easy and maybe some of the healing comes from reaching out with putting the blame on someone else.&nbsp; As a nurse told me you will never accept it but will only learn to try and live with it.Be thankful, the joy they bring over the years and continue to with the kids and their grandkids, I guess it was well worth it.I to feel sorry for not only the kids but also the parents as they will live with this for the rest of their life and will probably live with it every day for the rest of their life.&nbsp; Yes it will not bring back the kids, it will put other people through some kind of ordeal but sometimes you try to find ways to live with it.&nbsp; db</blockquote>

[QUOTE="db-2, post: 145147, member: 4743"] five kids and all have left home some time ago. Experience this to a certain degree. Having kids is great and so is the risk and heartaches that never go away. Some get lucky while others experience the grief. Not sure why but for me it seems a lot of families did not have to go through what me and the wife did. But I know that is not true as the other side is always greener and others have had it worse. There are times your thoughts turn to vengeance for what happen but in the end one needs to deal with it, remember it and get to the next day. Not easy and maybe some of the healing comes from reaching out with putting the blame on someone else. As a nurse told me you will never accept it but will only learn to try and live with it. Be thankful, the joy they bring over the years and continue to with the kids and their grandkids, I guess it was well worth it. I to feel sorry for not only the kids but also the parents as they will live with this for the rest of their life and will probably live with it every day for the rest of their life. Yes it will not bring back the kids, it will put other people through some kind of ordeal but sometimes you try to find ways to live with it. db [/QUOTE]

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