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Message: <blockquote data-quote="db-2" data-source="post: 221752" data-attributes="member: 4743">So many things can happen and who knows what will come tomorrow.  Me and the wife need to find a place to go die at and get bury at, no sense rushing some things.  Have nothing line up for that and it is not where we have lived for most of the last 40 years.Have not done any estate planning(not that big or that many things).  Put names on things to past down for a will (hopefully that will all happen while we are still alive and can still reason) and if any cash left split five ways.  Kids all know that and some of things we have already given them.  A lot of happiness watching them get and hopefully they keep until we die. No way do I want them to end up hating each other after we die because one took a certain something so we communicate with them verbally and as stated give those things up while we still live at home. They all know about the piece of paper and what we want each to have. Maybe not equal cash value but close. If for some reason we both go to a home unexpectly they are to come into the house and get all that stuff out.  Need to get their names on certain titles to cover that issue.  Pass assets now with life estate works well.For us two things: we will pay for our funeral and we want them to continue to see each other after we are gone.  Should however get a living will for when to let us go.Both of our minds are getting weaker and we know that.  Bodies are starting to ache a lot.  No pills, no doctors and no know problems yet.But it can happen tomorrow. Just hope we are satify with the life we lived and the kids are also. When the time comes we go fast.Got a thousand things to do yet on earth but I imagine we will have a million things to do after we die. As far as the state taking care of us.  It seems we have taken care of half the people most of their life with our tax money so in time I guess the two of us will get that same care when we are old as the trash gets when they are young.  db</blockquote>

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