You don't need advice. You'll do fine I'm sure. Sorry for your loss and God Bless.A close family member has died and I have been asked to give the eulogy.
I'm fairly immune to public speaking jitters - but I'm lost as to where to begin with writing it.
Lots of online advice out there but I trust you gomers more than some AI-generated BS.
Duration?
Word count?
Hot buttons to stay away from?
Etc.
Any advise is much appreciated.
I can almost guarantee no one is going to say anything about you sharing the memories of your dear friend. Emotions are part of the healing process, swollen eyes to me is a sign of sincerity that people will most likely be able to connect to you. This is to me a very important day in anyone's life who is given the honor to share your memories of a man who was a great influence in your life. You are going to be busy after the funeral especially if you are like some families that decide to carry the grieving process either to an after service lunch or at your local watering hole.Does crying a lot whilst writing it get the tears out of the way before delivery time?
I hope so... Crying in public is pretty rough.