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<blockquote data-quote="Nelly" data-source="post: 325494" data-attributes="member: 946"><p>I have no experience in a divorced household myself.&nbsp; I would think that the advice you have been given here is pretty sound.&nbsp; My advise would be don't penalize your kids at this point in their lives due to bad information that they are being given.&nbsp; Stick with them and try to guide them to the best of your abilities.&nbsp; Show them that you care no matter how much they may resist you while they are young.&nbsp; Remember, they are learning how to determine things for themselves and are very easily influenced by the people that are guiding them through life.&nbsp; You need to be one of these people.&nbsp; As they get older, they will see through the lies and make decisions based on experience.&nbsp; The one thing they will remember, is that you didn't give up on them.&nbsp; Try to be a positive role model to them and show your X respect in front of them both when she is around and also when you are on your own with them.&nbsp; Show them that you are not a hateful person.&nbsp; Later in life, at least you will know you didn't give up on your kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="Nelly, post: 325494, member: 946"] I have no experience in a divorced household myself. I would think that the advice you have been given here is pretty sound. My advise would be don't penalize your kids at this point in their lives due to bad information that they are being given. Stick with them and try to guide them to the best of your abilities. Show them that you care no matter how much they may resist you while they are young. Remember, they are learning how to determine things for themselves and are very easily influenced by the people that are guiding them through life. You need to be one of these people. As they get older, they will see through the lies and make decisions based on experience. The one thing they will remember, is that you didn't give up on them. Try to be a positive role model to them and show your X respect in front of them both when she is around and also when you are on your own with them. Show them that you are not a hateful person. Later in life, at least you will know you didn't give up on your kids. [/QUOTE]

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