I have been blessed in my career path, that when the kids were young, I could work from home, and adjust my hours.I’ll tell you the main reason both work, and it will piss many off. It’s easier to have someone else raise your kids than do it yourself. That should get some conversation going.
But they of course spent time in daycare, as parts of working life was not kid friendly. Maybe 18 hours a week or so for the most part was their time in care of others.
But agree, I am not a kid fella, even my own 4....haha