We were in the restaurant business for 27 years 1986-2013
I put in little of a year as a dishwasher, and 13 years as a line cook.
I made diddle squat, yet put out damn good food and was told so by customers and in fact a guy tried offering me a job at his steak house lol and the waitress got all the money!! go figure that out.
I understand that the waitress run their butts off but the cooks are sweating their nuts off to make the food good and get it out at a decent time. I know a few watiress's that made way more than I did even tho they got a lower hourly wage but the tips made it way more.
Some girls complained about not making more than the other and yes, it has to do with attitude and tolerating crabby customers, I've seen it all because I've worked in that business
So what your mainly tipping for? seeing some waitress cute ass/titties or for good food?
Here's what a customer did for me once, he wanted to tip me, not the watiress, got up came back into the kitchen and handed me $5 bill, told me his steak was awesome. Just to show its not all about the watiress , lots needs to click to get returning customers and for them to tip good.
There I said that.