I can recall a time 28 or so years ago, going to the market with my then 3 year old daughter, we used one of those kid carts to put the groceries in, make it a fun little experience for our little kid. When we had gathered what we were needing for the week, and after it was all rang up, turns out we did not have enough on the account for it to process. Young and credit cardless we had to leave the groceries and do the walk of shame with our little one asking why we were not gathering up our bags of food.
Guess what never happened in my life again?
Not saying ever a kid should be shamed for their lack luster parents suckiness, but sometimes a little shame, which this day and age seems the current generation does not have, can go a long ways.
Sounds like the kid gets feed either way, so they should not be getting looked upon. If somehow we could get the dead beat parent to have to do some janitor work, or lunch lady duties to cover their debts.