Man there are a lot of good posts on this thread! I hope that if someone is struggling with quitting can read this and be inspired and motivated to take the right steps to make their lives better. JayKay is spot on with a lot of stuff here. You can try to surround yourself with people that will help you, but in the end, it all has to be you that wants it and does it. There are plenty of things that can help out there. One that I've heard of and have actually tried is Kava. It's a Polynesian drink made from a root that they use to help resolve differences (angry polys are not easy to deal with). I guess it has a similar effect as alcohol but isn't alcohol. People struggling to stop drinking use it as a substitute for alcohol. It is also used for anxiety and depression. So if someone is drinking their problems away, this could be the answer...