ok - wait just one cotton-picking minute.
Your mom and you mom-in-law always at house?... And you are there too - not fishing, but there - with two top tier baby wranglers.
Throw me a bone here.
If he leaves and has fun it will come back to bite him in the ass 5 years 13 days from now as they never forget any thing ever. So i can see the long game he is playing....... I under stand