Thats a tell tale sign you have hearing loss. This was my problem also. Couldn’t clearly hear anything in a restaurant/ bar setting. Went in this summer at the ripe age of 41 to find out I have lost about 60-70% of my hearing in my left ear. The right was in pretty good shape thankfully. The audiologist knew immediately that I did a lot of shooting and I was right handed. I left that day with a demo set of hearing aids to try and I ordered a custom molded set molded ear plugs with filters. It sucks hunting with them, especially when I have relied on my hearing so heavily to hear birds getting up or the dogs beeper collar. Deer hunting this year has been done with full set of muffs, which is a must with my muzzle break. I wish someone would’ve harped on me more when I was younger as I’m paying the price now and I hope to have a-lot of years in front of me yet. It’s not just shooting though either, it’s loud music, concerts, power sports & heavy equipment. I used to be the guy with chrome straight pipe stacks on my tractor, and loud exhaust on all of my power sports equipment, not any more. The only thing I own that’s remotely loud now are the sleds but those are responsible compared to what I used to run.
I’m lucky as I don’t have ringing in my ears. And as an FYI for those that don’t know, there isn’t a thing they can do for you other than hearing aids and they aren’t a magic wand either. And FWIW, a set of hearing aids are around $5k+- and typically your insurance doesn’t cover them!
hope someone can learn for this, good topic.
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The 3000 watts of amplified speakers in my pickup didn’t exactly help things either, lol. I do still crank it up on occasion but I’m much more mindful than in the past.
Yeah, the odd part for me is that I always test well when having my hearing checked. They're...you're fine.
So the lifelong lack of being able to listen to someone in a loud environment has always puzzled me. BTW, I've never been a loud music kind of guy. I think I was in my late 40s when I attended my first concert. Nonetheless, I am glad my kids are adamant about wearing state of the art hearing protection when shooting.
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Note, I spent 3-4 yrs of listening to old JD tractors before I developed good hearing protection practices. Those old 2 cylinder JD tractors were something else.
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While my hearing is good, I loathe loud bar settings. I too can’t hear conversations in them.
And 90% of them are way louder than necessary. WTF… seems dumb to drive business away like that.
Its one of the key reasons we never go out to bars. The noise makes it unbearable for many people.
No shit, right? I've had conversations with several people on the influencer end of those environments. They were not sympathetic. Dumbasses, I took my business elsewhere.