You have any friends that she hasn't met? That's my plan, take turns with my friends who are dads spying on each other's kids. Collect plate numbers, ID hangouts, keep profiles on every boy that talks to or looks at her, you know dad stuff.
All good ideas.
I have a first cousin whose only child - a girl - recently got married. Everything is good.
But he told me the secret. He said "during her teen years, make sure that your house is the coolest of all the friends, so they want to hang out there. Get a foosball table, ping-pong, a big tv. Never ever worry about the carpet. Give them space, and they'll hang at your house, and you'll know where they are.".
Sounds like great advice. Plus, I will always have a big cool TV.
PS, my girls are 8 and 10, and some days I feel a bit panicky when I think about what's coming.
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As the father of a nine going on nineteen year old, all I can say is that it's our job as dads to teach them to not put themselves in danger via bad decisions. If we do that successfully, life is good.
Oh yeah, and as I get older it's less and less uncommon that I slip a shirt on backwards. So pick up your size of that dad rules t-shirt and wear it backwards. Yeah, it's uncomfortable, but when the boy realizes you are wearing it backwards you will know he's read it.
Haha Allen, a great idea. Even better, when he realizes that it's on backwards, on purpose! Too funny!!