Well in all honesty I am a very lucky husband, she was snarky at first, but came to understand that I was mostly right.
I take care of certain duties around the home and she takes care of others.
I drink beer and mow the yard, she cooks, cleans, launders, repairs, and performs her maritals. We have an understanding
Perfecting this system has been a multi year adventure, some kinks had to be worked through, and I had to give in to her not wanting me to do the laundry after ruining lots of her stuff. Being a husband and father is not as easy as it sounds, and must be handled accordingly.