losing a best friend...

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Sorry for your loss... been through it myself and is tough
On a lighter note..... if you have a boat and beer I could be a temporary best friend...I also eat hamburger... and I suppose I could fetch beer. However, I can't lick my balls and don't think you'd want to see that anyhow...
 


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I'm really sorry to hear that. I'll definitely hug my pups a bit tighter tonight.
 

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Sorry for your loss. In my experience, the kids got over the loss long before I did. We cried and prayed together and thy did just fine. In time, you will too .
 

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Sorry for your loss raider! We had to put our 10 and 1/2 yr old English setter down right after pheasant opener last season. I didn't bring him with as he was much too weak. Acute renal failure. I just took our other dog..a 9 yr old springer. While we did fine hunting last year opening pheasant..it just wasn't the same without the both of them. I knew he took a turn for the worse when my wife called and asked me to come back a day early. When I returned home, we made the decision to call the vet in the morning and end his misery. Let me tell you it was very hard on us....especially me as that dog was my bud for 10 yrs of hunting basically every weekend in the fall and early winter. And a great pet as well. Fast forward a few months and in Feb. we decided to get another pup. A Springer..female. While she will never replace the place in my heart for my English setter, or new pup, now 6 months old, is quickly warming our hearts with joy. Our other springer is now 10 and beginning to show his age so do not look forward to the day we must say goodbye to him. Sucks..but then again..it is the memories that bring smiles to our faces and we wouldn't want it any other way.
 


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Saw this today... Im sorry bro.
I lost my ol cocker spaniel back in 2007. Feels like yesterday... I still feel her with me from time to time, like at the birth of my son.. I know she was there. I miss her so damn much.
 

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I feel that. I had to put my best pal down at 6 years old due to mouth cancer back in April. I still tear up from time to time thinking about my buddy.
 

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Man I read the whole thing and got sad all over again.

Found this and thought it would be good for youngsters

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...

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and this...

Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish wolfhound named Belker. The dog’s owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.
I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn’t do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.
As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.
The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker’s family surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.
The little boy seemed to accept Belker’s transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker’s death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.
Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, “I know why.”
Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I’d never heard a more comforting explanation. He said, “People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life – like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?”
The six-year-old continued, “Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don’t have to stay as long.”
 

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These make me sad... My family had to put our first lab down a year ago at the age of eleven. She was already weak, but her last bout with a coon in the yard did her in. She won and was proud as hell, but the damage was done and she never recovered. I shot a decedent of that coon in the front yard at 3AM last weekend. Our second lab (daughter of the first) had it cornered against a shed and went bonkers until I woke and grabbed the 410. Nice to get partially even at least.
 

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we have an american emskimo nearing the end... great friend and family pet... organs shutting down at 14 after a great life... sux... any help appreciated... what to say to wife and kids... thanks...

Sorry for your loss. I put mine down this summer too. ����
 


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After having to put 3 of the best buddys down . I get a big lump in my throat when I see someone has to do this. Raider there is something you should remember That buddy of yours had the best times with you and yours and they wouldn't change a thing. I know that if my life would be like my dogs as spoiled as they are I would be good with that.
 

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update...

sophie lived 2 weeks longer than sturgis did, but is with her brothers now... after 1 week of a quiet house my bride lost it... i told her to go to minot and find some dogs... she did, and we started the cycle of k9 life all over again... 2 lhasa-poo puppies have turned our life into chaos again, like it should be... they are already sleeping in bed with her, and running our lives... life is good again as the stress and torture of sick and old is gone... life is good...

thanks all for the kind words and advise... it meant a lot...
 

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Just reread your post, looking for some help.
We lost our 12 year old lab while I was out of state this week. Really crushed the family, allot more than I thought it would. "myself included"
I mentioned to my wife about getting a new puppy but she wasn't ready for that she said.
Man this house is lifeless now on my days off that's for sure, no big tail wackin everything in excitement. I'm not liking it at all.. :(
They really are a huge part of a family and a home, no doubt about that.

Josie proud.jpg

josie dev puppy.jpg
 
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tough loss bud, hard to get over, at least you will still have plenty of fond memories and good stories to tell, I know we still talk about the black lab and Chesapeake we had growing up, the good ones never really leave.
 


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Sorry to hear man, always tough, but maybe you can try to remember all the life you were able to share and enjoy as a member of your family. Hopefully you will be able to as a family say goodbye, and surround him with love as he started his journey elsewhere. I guess a solace is that you will someday all be reunited for eternity! Take care
 

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My condolences to your family on the impending loss. My black lab mix is getting near the same stage in life. Not looking forward to that day.

Damn didn't realize how old this thread was, sorry to here about your lab 5575.
 
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Sad situation you all are going through.
Remember all the good times and how the pup made you laugh and when you all were playing or hunting with it.
 

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That's bad stuff friend, I'm sorry. I further advise (from the outside of the situation) to overrule your wife before mutual consent if you bond with a pup. Just don't end up in an apt with two freakn cats you can't ethically rid yourself of. You may want to do this soon before she surprises YOU with some yip-yap deal.
 

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it sux man, it really does... you will never replace the memories, but will learn to adjust to life without him or her... the fact that your whole family is upset tells me you have the perfect home for a new dog...

your bride probably feels the same way you do, but the motherly instinct is to resist what may bring pain again some day... when she is done mourning, she may be the one pressing to start over...

as you someday will, i have re-learned how to deal with pups again, and all the happy struggles and adjustments necessary to live with them... they do things i had forgotten they tend to do 10 years ago, and i'm growing up with them all over again... pups really awaken you to a different kind of understanding of their lack of it, and it is awesome to realize it all over again...

just remember the good times, as the bad, sick, and old times slip from your memory... they will...

good luck and look ahead...
 


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