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Point is you were making snarky comments.

So here's one for you. Outside of Antler, a stepfather and father-in-law usually are two different people.


Lord, I apologize for that...and be with the little pygmies out in Africa.
 


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;:;bowdownHa now see that is a good one........indeed I mispoke on the father in law and step father deal. Served ya up a curve ball that didn;t curve there.

I suppose I should get with the times and give out a bad rep for that one though and maybe get my panties in a wad over the snarkiness, but I just think it was a pretty good come back.

I guess I didn;t think you were that tender of a soul, my apologies for my snarkiness to both you and the pygmies.

But you still have avoided answering the one question I am most curious about.

What was the whole point of your "over grazing" comments anyways?

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Is this the "snarky" comment you are refering to?

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and there is the govt employee doubling down on removing grazing and logging and leaving that dead grass and standing dead timber.....what could go wrong there........
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Actually, he and the federal employees of BLM, USFS, USACE, etc, etc that will listen are simply taking the work of range scientists such as Kevin Sedevec from NDSU and trying to implement the recommendations made in that paper I linked to a couple pages back. Then again, you read that paper as well, so you already know the impacts from overgrazing will be felt for years down the road due to the damage caused by overgrazing.




Becasue if you think it is perhaps you haven;t been paying attention ot what is happening out west on these lands where grazing and logging HAVE been removed altogether. (Did you read the link about the lawsuit and the judges comments that are now going up in smoke?)

You did read that link I shared that said there was really no significant damage being done in the LMNG (Little Missouri National Grasslands for those just joining us) from grazing right?

so what was the point again?
 

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Because we are talking about the LMNG here, and public lands rented out to ag interests in general. We disagree on the level of importance the competing interests should be given. I have been very disappointed in the past when making plans to recreate (hunt) a given area of public land only to find it nearly void of wildlife because it is void of vegetation.

And then we digressed into each other's qualifications, amongst other things.

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"Well you see allen for those that understand range management and grasslands a bit more than from ridin around with Grandpa there are many mitigating factors one should consider before making a blanket claim of over grazing. (not that one can;t learn plenty from their Grandpa)"


You forget, I read too. Heck, I may even have attended a meeting or three over the years. The big difference is that while you still make your living off of cattle, I just help people make their living off of cattle.
 

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Well you see allen for those that understand range management and grasslands a bit more than from ridin around with Grandpa

If you reigned in the "im better than you" dickheadedness when you post your message would be received by far more people. Just a thought.
 

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Because we are talking about the LMNG here, and public lands rented out to ag interests in general. We disagree on the level of importance the competing interests should be given. I have been very disappointed in the past when making plans to recreate (hunt) a given area of public land only to find it nearly void of wildlife because it is void of vegetation.

And then we digressed into each other's qualifications, amongst other things.

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"Well you see allen for those that understand range management and grasslands a bit more than from ridin around with Grandpa there are many mitigating factors one should consider before making a blanket claim of over grazing. (not that one can;t learn plenty from their Grandpa)"


You forget, I read too. Heck, I may even have attended a meeting or three over the years. The big difference is that while you still make your living off of cattle, I just help people make their living off of cattle.


allen, did you read the management policy plan I shard the link to?

You admit there is far less over grazing than 20 years ago. The people in charge of monitoring it and implementing allotments and plans and restrictions are saying there really is not negative impacts happening on wildlife and environments in the LMNG.

the link I shared shows the policy where grazing takes a back seat to wildlife interests and impacts on ecosystems in the LMNG .

Ya I get there have been and even still are abuses and over grazing happening on public lands. But not at the levels of claims some on here try ot make. I know firsthand some of the efforts ranchers themselves have driven to be better stewards and make improvements not only in reality but in public perception as ot the impacts grazing has as the ideologies swaying the realities of public opinions are having on the use of these public lands.

So hey if you want ot have an actual fact based conversation of what is happening on these public lands, the good, the bad and the ugly we sure can I would enjoy it but lets keep it based on current happenings and policies and based on actual facts and knowledge. And I promise ot curb the snarkiness.

and just keep in mind that while you may be disappointed in your recreation opportunities because you think lands were over grazed, those communities and producers that have seen grazing and logging removed and communities impacted and stores and schools closing as industries and business dries up and ends may also be a bit disappointed in what they can provide for their families livlihood as well.

And THAT has been my steadfast "point" thru all this, that ranchers and sportsmen can not afford to bicker and make stupid accusations of "greed" and other foolish claims while those with agendas to end what we BOTH do to recreate and generate incomes are gaining footholds in these Federal agencies and policies.

When logging, mining and grazing and off roading are removed from these lands, what will be next?

Only a fool thinks they will be satisfied.

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Because we are talking about the LMNG here, and public lands rented out to ag interests in general. We disagree on the level of importance the competing interests should be given. .

They don;t have to be "competing" allen. Only those seeking to drive a wedge for some reason believe that.

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If you reigned in the "im better than you" dickheadedness when you post your message would be received by far more people. Just a thought.


I don't think I am better or smarter or faster or stronger than anyone else in particular. I simply share what are facts on here most times with the links to them that I find when I am reading on some subjects or know from previous learnings.

When those facts prove foolish claims others have made wrong and they begin with the petty personal accusations and name calling, I don;t have much time for that so ya I know I can get kinds dickheadedly snarky after a while.

Early on before some folks showed up here we were able to have some good conversations about some topics when this site first started.

I enjoy good conversations with people even though I may not agree with them when there is a level of courteousness.

Try having a conversation based on fact rather than petty personal accusations of greed and anti sportsmen and the stupid shit some invariably bring to the table and see what happens some times.

When someone comes on here claiming ranchers are closing hunting seasons becasue they are "whining" about what is the most real fire danger we have had in the state in many years, maybe that is the fella people ought to be putting o their ignore list.

There is a reason someone makes stupid claims like that and it is to drive a wedge between groups that like it or not are dependent on each other.

It really was a nice change from the other two sites back before plainsman started spouting his "greedy pervert" crap. Hell even when he was trying to hide behind the new name he wasn;t bad at first.

Here is the deal straight up, the USDA oversees all the federal agencies managing these public lands. Our last Ag Sec. Vilsack wife was involved with HSUS and they funded heavily her campaign effort. Vilsack appointed HSUS people ot positions within the USDA. Sportsmen need to understand they are next on the list of targets on these public lands.

http://protecttheharvest.com/2015/08/21/hsus-continues-to-infiltrate-usda-ranks/

We are not "competing interests" but should be allies.

When people post stupid shit on these public forums across the country like plainsman does, what is the end result they are looking for?

Once cattle and logging ect are driven off these lands hunting WILL be next.

And foolish false statements do little to bring these interests together to fight the real enemy.

The first topic in this thread goes back to a statement of finding a mutually agreeable solution.

Why would anyone post stupid shit to try and disrupt or distract from that kind of solution?

Over the years I have hammered o DU and have encouraged sportsmen to speak out. They have. DU is losing credibility and Delta waterfowl is picking up credibility and members I believe. Delta here in the state was one of the first sportsmen org to drive the narrative about opening CRP to drought stricken farmers. They get it. They are being procative on creating a workable CRP program that allows managed haying and grazing.

Of course there are sticking points but the dialogue is aimed at proactively creating something that works and benefits BOTH sportsmen and ranchers. A mutually beneficial solution.

The same has happened with the impact of the threat pf the Sage Grouse listing. Ranchers came ot the rable and gave concessions to help avoid losing MORE down the road. Some of that is reflected in the Grasslands managemenrt plan.

More andmore ranchers are implementing einvironmentalstewardship practices i their operations, especially those transitioning ot the next generations.

I get people not connected to ranching may not be aware of what is happening behind the scenes and that is why I try to share links ot the real story and actual facts when I post here. It gets old when the people whos claims are proven false by these facts drive these topics down the rabibit hole with the predictable "anti sprotsmen" "riding herd on sportsmen" bullshit.

So ya I get "snarky".

My apologizes and I truly do hope the next time a topic comes up like this those that would drive it down the rabbit hole with stupid claims that are easily prove false are driven there themselves.
 
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BHA or Backcountry Hunters and Anglers. The CEO or fellow who started this front org is Land Tawney. He used to be a Regional Director for the National Wildlife Federation. North Dakota was in his region.

Land Tawney has started many front orgs:

Vanishing Paradise to extract large sums of cash from deep water horizon.
Montana Hellgate Hunters and Anglers
Colorado's Bull Moose Sportsmen
Montana Hunters and Angler Action (MHAA)

Land Tawney serves on Montana Senator (D) Jon Testers Sportsmen Caucus. Whenever Sen. Tester is running for re-election, Land is the bag man running out of state money through MHAA. Montana Hunters and Anglers Action really doesn't have any membership, but it cranks up every election cycle.

Fly-Carpin, I believe this is the org gst was talking about.
 

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here is a suggestion...

Take this, read it, write it up in 20 words or less



Originally Posted by Stan's Dad
If you reigned in the "im better than you" dickheadedness when you post your message would be received by far more people. Just a thought.

I don't think I am better or smarter or faster or stronger than anyone else in particular. I simply share what are facts on here most times with the links to them that I find when I am reading on some subjects or know from previous learnings.

When those facts prove foolish claims others have made wrong and they begin with the petty personal accusations and name calling, I don;t have much time for that so ya I know I can get kinds dickheadedly snarky after a while.

Early on before some folks showed up here we were able to have some good conversations about some topics when this site first started.

I enjoy good conversations with people even though I may not agree with them when there is a level of courteousness.

Try having a conversation based on fact rather than petty personal accusations of greed and anti sportsmen and the stupid shit some invariably bring to the table and see what happens some times.

When someone comes on here claiming ranchers are closing hunting seasons becasue they are "whining" about what is the most real fire danger we have had in the state in many years, maybe that is the fella people ought to be putting o their ignore list.

There is a reason someone makes stupid claims like that and it is to drive a wedge between groups that like it or not are dependent on each other.

It really was a nice change from the other two sites back before plainsman started spouting his "greedy pervert" crap. Hell even when he was trying to hide behind the new name he wasn;t bad at first.

Here is the deal straight up, the USDA oversees all the federal agencies managing these public lands. Our last Ag Sec. Vilsack wife was involved with HSUS and they funded heavily her campaign effort. Vilsack appointed HSUS people ot positions within the USDA. Sportsmen need to understand they are next on the list of targets on these public lands.

http://protecttheharvest.com/2015/08...te-usda-ranks/

We are not "competing interests" but should be allies.

When people post stupid shit on these public forums across the country like plainsman does, what is the end result they are looking for?

Once cattle and logging ect are driven off these lands hunting WILL be next.

And foolish false statements do little to bring these interests together to fight the real enemy.

The first topic in this thread goes back to a statement of finding a mutually agreeable solution.

Why would anyone post stupid shit to try and disrupt or distract from that kind of solution?

Over the years I have hammered o DU and have encouraged sportsmen to speak out. They have. DU is losing credibility and Delta waterfowl is picking up credibility and members I believe. Delta here in the state was one of the first sportsmen org to drive the narrative about opening CRP to drought stricken farmers. They get it. They are being procative on creating a workable CRP program that allows managed haying and grazing.

Of course there are sticking points but the dialogue is aimed at proactively creating something that works and benefits BOTH sportsmen and ranchers. A mutually beneficial solution.

The same has happened with the impact of the threat pf the Sage Grouse listing. Ranchers came ot the rable and gave concessions to help avoid losing MORE down the road. Some of that is reflected in the Grasslands managemenrt plan.

More andmore ranchers are implementing einvironmentalstewardship practices i their operations, especially those transitioning ot the next generations.

I get people not connected to ranching may not be aware of what is happening behind the scenes and that is why I try to share links ot the real story and actual facts when I post here. It gets old when the people whos claims are proven false by these facts drive these topics down the rabibit hole with the predictable "anti sprotsmen" "riding herd on sportsmen" bullshit.

So ya I get "snarky".



My apologizes and I truly do hope the next time a topic comes up like this those that would drive it down the rabbit hole with stupid claims that are easily prove false are driven there themselves.



Umm thanks
 

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BHA or Backcountry Hunters and Anglers. The CEO or fellow who started this front org is Land Tawney. He used to be a Regional Director for the National Wildlife Federation. North Dakota was in his region.

Land Tawney has started many front orgs:

Vanishing Paradise to extract large sums of cash from deep water horizon.
Montana Hellgate Hunters and Anglers
Colorado's Bull Moose Sportsmen
Montana Hunters and Angler Action (MHAA)

Land Tawney serves on Montana Senator (D) Jon Testers Sportsmen Caucus. Whenever Sen. Tester is running for re-election, Land is the bag man running out of state money through MHAA. Montana Hunters and Anglers Action really doesn't have any membership, but it cranks up every election cycle.

Fly-Carpin, I believe this is the org gst was talking about.
Oh I'm very familiar with BHA and Land Tawney. Just trying to lighten the mood around here
 
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Oh I'm very familiar with BHA and Land Tawney. Just trying to lighten the mood around here
I guess I am not. I would like a hunters perspective on him. I had just wrote this off as hating another sportsmen like that guy (forget his name) that has the tv show about hunting public land. Hmmm Randy Newbury maybe?
Anyway, it always appears to me as an effort to blast sportsmen. They feel hunters should support them, and most of us would like too, but then behind our back they work against us. Fritz keeps bringing up Land Tawney and that's ok, but again I will bring up Montana's no corner hoping. If ranchers want support stop being as great a danger to the average income plane Joe hunter as the animal rights people. You want to work together then act like it. I think that would be great. We have no problem with loggers, we have no problem with mining, why do ranchers try restrict us?

Edit: To avoid simple argument from others Fly Carpin please PM me and tell me about Land Tawney and BHA. I am not sure about the guy, but I thought BHA was hunters and anglers.
 
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I guess I am not. I would like a hunters perspective on him. I had just wrote this off as hating another sportsmen like that guy (forget his name) that has the tv show about hunting public land. Hmmm Randy Newbury maybe?
Anyway, it always appears to me as an effort to blast sportsmen. They feel hunters should support them, and most of us would like too, but then behind our back they work against us. Fritz keeps bringing up Land Tawney and that's ok, but again I will bring up Montana's no corner hoping. If ranchers want support stop being as great a danger to the average income plane Joe hunter as the animal rights people. You want to work together then act like it. I think that would be great. We have no problem with loggers, we have no problem with mining, why do ranchers try restrict us?

aaaaaaannnnnd there ya go. So why does plains want ot drive this wedge deeper so badly?

http://democratherald.com/news/loca...cle_2dab8200-7aae-5ad4-8d88-ace9ef8c8269.html


Anglin said hunters need to understand those fire restrictions and closures before they go afield. The InciWeb website has information on fires and closures due to firefighting, plus maps of closure areas in some cases. Currently, there are active fires and related closures on the Malheur, Rogue-River-Siskiyou, Umatilla, Umpqua, and Wallowa-Whitman national forests. Closures are also in effect on some BLM lands where there is fire activity.

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Oh I'm very familiar with BHA and Land Tawney. Just trying to lighten the mood around here

I actually get a picture of a basset hound walking sloooowly across a meadow stopping to bay every once in a while now when plains makes a post

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Edit: To avoid simple argument from others Fly Carpin please PM me and tell me about Land Tawney and BHA. I am not sure about the guy, but I thought BHA was hunters and anglers.

:)plains has had a BUNCH of information shared with him on more than one occasion regarding Land Tawney and BCHA.

Fritz has shared facts about Land Tawney going way back to plainsmans HFH measure days when his friends hopped in bed with HSUS. And yet old plains bays coyly trying to pretend he doesn;t know much........

I do find the feigned lack of recollection of Randy Newburgs name amusing given old plains plastered multiple videos from him all over multiple sites just a while ago. "Randy Newbury maybe??" ha good one plains!! :cool: Maybe it was Randy Mayberry............

If the senility is actually hitting that hard perhaps it is time to ease up on the posting here

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If ranchers want support stop being as great a danger to the average income plane Joe hunter as the animal rights people. .

Ya mean like HSUS? Saaaaaay plains didn;t a bunch of your friends hop in bed with those people a while back on some measure thingy? :confused:
I forget how that all went, maybe you could PM me and let me know again.
 
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[h=3]If any of you want to understand what you are dealing with when talking to gst I suggest you read this. This is just one of the 20 diversion tactics used by highly manipulative narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths as the title says. You can read the rest of them if you click on the link below this one. The shoe fits here doesn't it goober?

3. Nonsensical conversations from hell.[/h]If you think you’re going to have a thoughtful discussion with someone who is toxic, be prepared for epic mindfuckery rather than conversational mindfulness.



Malignant narcissists and sociopaths use word salad, circular conversations, ad hominem arguments, projection and gaslighting to disorient you and get you off track should you ever disagree with them or challenge them in any way. They do this in order to discredit, confuse and frustrate you, distract you from the main problem and make you feel guilty for being a human being with actual thoughts and feelings that might differ from their own. In their eyes, you are the problem if you happen to exist.
Spend even ten minutes arguing with a toxic narcissist and you’ll find yourself wondering how the argument even began at all. You simply disagreed with them about their absurd claim that the sky is red and now your entire childhood, family, friends, career and lifestyle choices have come under attack. That is because your disagreement picked at their false belief that they are omnipotent and omniscient, resulting in a narcissistic injury.
Remember: toxic people don’t argue with you, they essentially argue with themselves and you become privy to their long, draining monologues. They thrive off the drama and they live for it. Each and every time you attempt to provide a point that counters their ridiculous assertions, you feed them supply. Don’t feed the narcissists supply – rather, supply yourself with the confirmation that their abusive behavior is the problem, not you. Cut the interaction short as soon as you anticipate it escalating and use your energy on some decadent self-care instead.


https://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-...ociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you/
 

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I forgot to mention Land Tawney also started Sportsmen for Obama. The back and forth on NDA is actually light compared to these guys on a National level.

http://missoulian.com/news/opinion/...cle_b78d8d73-32e0-59b5-b2c7-163649f03906.html

Sportsmen's group has ties to 'fringe environmentalists'
  • ONLINE-ONLY letter to the editor
  • Jan 26, 2015



While Backcountry Hunters and Anglers may pose as an authentic voice of Montana sportsmen, it’s actually a camouflaged activist group that gets the majority of its money from a handful of out-of-state liberal foundations. There are several such “green decoy” groups in Montana, which are funded by fringe environmentalists hiding their extreme agendas behind the hunting and fishing community.

Whatever one thinks about land management policy, Tawney’s concern about Montana’s economy is ironic because his group shares funding and ideological ties with the fringe environmentalists who are actively trying to shut down Montana's ranching, timber, gas, oil and coal industries – no matter what it costs the state’s economy or how many Montana jobs it kills. Tawney himself worked on the campaign of Barack Obama, who is no friend to Montana sportsmen.



Readers should be aware that when they see the name “Backcountry Hunters and Anglers,” they’re really seeing Big Green and its San Francisco sugar daddies.















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Backcountry Hunters and Anglers CEO Land Tawney has been talking about getting a chapter started in North Dakota. That's all we need. Another non-profit vacuuming up foundation dollars. NGO's get their ideals from those who fund them.
 

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I like what bcha is about but i dont like the leader ship. I like alot of the guys involved with it but there are still some things that put me off. It is like that with all non profits i have never found one yet i dont disagree with. RMEF is one that has made me the most happy to give my money to.
 

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If any of you want to understand what you are dealing with when talking to gst I suggest you read this. This is just one of the 20 diversion tactics used by highly manipulative narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths as the title says. You can read the rest of them if you click on the link below this one. The shoe fits here doesn't it goober?

3. Nonsensical conversations from hell.


If you think you’re going to have a thoughtful discussion with someone who is toxic, be prepared for epic mindfuckery rather than conversational mindfulness.



Malignant narcissists and sociopaths use word salad, circular conversations, ad hominem arguments, projection and gaslighting to disorient you and get you off track should you ever disagree with them or challenge them in any way. They do this in order to discredit, confuse and frustrate you, distract you from the main problem and make you feel guilty for being a human being with actual thoughts and feelings that might differ from their own. In their eyes, you are the problem if you happen to exist.
Spend even ten minutes arguing with a toxic narcissist and you’ll find yourself wondering how the argument even began at all. You simply disagreed with them about their absurd claim that the sky is red and now your entire childhood, family, friends, career and lifestyle choices have come under attack. That is because your disagreement picked at their false belief that they are omnipotent and omniscient, resulting in a narcissistic injury.
Remember: toxic people don’t argue with you, they essentially argue with themselves and you become privy to their long, draining monologues. They thrive off the drama and they live for it. Each and every time you attempt to provide a point that counters their ridiculous assertions, you feed them supply. Don’t feed the narcissists supply – rather, supply yourself with the confirmation that their abusive behavior is the problem, not you. Cut the interaction short as soon as you anticipate it escalating and use your energy on some decadent self-care instead.


https://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-...ociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you/


Ha go figure dirty mike "likes" old westies diagnosis...........

but west, you need to actually read what you post.

I simply disagreed with plainsmans "absurd claim" that ranchers close hunting seasons on Federal lands and suddenly my career, friends, family and lifestyle choices have come under attack.


West, exactly what "absurd claim" have I made in these discussions? Would you mind copying and pasting that or are you just going to slink off back to your moms basement until you come out to make another post like this again?? :)

Without that base of untruthfulness your diagnosis falls flat......and then it just comes off as a petty dislike for someone on the internet you have never met.

you two might want to read up a bit more before making internet diagnosis.......:D

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https://www.fs.usda.gov/Internet/FSE_DOCUMENTS/stelprd3818907.pdf

Outside the attempted distractions this is what it comes down to. How these public lands are managed.

Here in ND they are working on honoring the multiple uses as intended and promised.

We have had we have some good debates and compromises in the management of these Federal public lands, and as yet those groups like the Sierra Club, Wildlands Defenders and BCH&A have been kept at bay from implementing their agendas here.

Mutually agreeable solutions CAN be reached if those pushing the pendelum are left out of the discussions.

A couple weeks ago the President of the NDFB guest hosted the Whats on Your Mind program and he had the fella from Delta Waterfowl on. They found some good common ground and had compliments for each other as they shared a good dialogue.

Fortunately those are the discussions that are driving policy here in ND where common sense still works more often than not.

there is never anything wrong with sharing facts and truth about these issues and having a good discussion.

Unfortunately there are those that would distract from facts, truth and civil discourse meant to reach "mutually agreeable solutions".

One should ask why.
 
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Ha go figure dirty mike "likes" old westies diagnosis...........

but west, you need to actually read what you post.

I simply disagreed with plainsmans "absurd claim" that ranchers close hunting seasons on Federal lands and suddenly my career, friends, family and lifestyle choices have come under attack.


West, exactly what "absurd claim" have I made in these discussions? Would you mind copying and pasting that or are you just going to slink off back to your moms basement until you come out to make another post like this again?? :)
This looks like an attack on both his family as well as his lifestyle choices.
 

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[h=3]Holy shit Gabe, it's like this guy followed you around for a week and wrote this article!!!! Or did he just read your posts here on good old NDA:confused:

18. Condescending sarcasm and patronizing tone.[/h]Belittling and degrading a person is a toxic person’s forte and their tone of voice is only one tool in their toolbox. Sarcasm can be a fun mode of communication when both parties are engaged, but narcissists use it chronically as a way to manipulate you and degrade you. If you in any way react to it, you must be “too sensitive.”
Forget that the toxic person constantly has temper tantrums every time their big bad ego is faced with realistic feedback – the victim is the hypersensitive one, apparently. So long as you’re treated like a child and constantly challenged for expressing yourself, you’ll start to develop a sense of hypervigilance about voicing your thoughts and opinions without reprimand. This self-censorship enables the abuser to put in less work in silencing you, because you begin to silence yourself.
Whenever you are met with a condescending demeanor or tone, call it out firmly and assertively. You don’t deserve to be spoken down to like a child – nor should you ever silence yourself to meet the expectation of someone else’s superiority complex.
 

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Any ways back out to cut some more hay, kid found a 75" shed the other day a couple years old while cutting a field, looked and looked but couldn;t find the match. Have seen a couple nice bucks so something ot look forward to.
 

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[h=3]2. Projection.[/h]One sure sign of toxicity is when a person is chronically unwilling to see his or her own shortcomings and uses everything in their power to avoid being held accountable for them. This is known as projection. Projection is a defense mechanism used to displace responsibility of one’s negative behavior and traits by attributing them to someone else. It ultimately acts as a digression that avoids ownership and accountability.
While we all engage in projection to some extent, according to Narcissistic Personality clinical expert Dr. Martinez-Lewi, the projections of a narcissist are often psychologically abusive. Rather than acknowledge their own flaws, imperfections and wrongdoings, malignant narcissists and sociopaths opt to dump their own traits on their unsuspecting suspects in a way that is painful and excessively cruel. Instead of admitting that self-improvement may be in order, they would prefer that their victims take responsibility for their behavior and feel ashamed of themselves. This is a way for a narcissist to project any toxic shame they have about themselves onto another.



For example, a person who engages in pathological lying may accuse their partner of fibbing; a needy spouse may call their husband “clingy” in an attempt to depict them as the one who is dependent; a rude employee may call their boss ineffective in an effort to escape the truth about their own productivity.
Narcissistic abusers love to play the “blameshifting game.” Objectives of the game: they win, you lose, and you or the world at large is blamed for everything that’s wrong with them. This way, you get to babysit their fragile ego while you’re thrust into a sea of self-doubt. Fun, right?
Solution? Don’t “project” your own sense of compassion or empathy onto a toxic person and don’t own any of the toxic person’s projections either. As manipulation expert and author Dr. George Simon (2010) notes in his book In Sheep’s Clothing, projecting our own conscience and value system onto others has the potential consequence of being met with further exploitation.
Narcissists on the extreme end of the spectrum usually have no interest in self-insight or change. It’s important to cut ties and end interactions with toxic people as soon as possible so you can get centered in your own reality and validate your own identity. You don’t have to live in someone else’s cesspool of dysfunction.

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Any ways back out to cut some more hay, kid found a 75" shed the other day a couple years old while cutting a field, looked and looked but couldn;t find the match. Have seen a couple nice bucks so something ot look forward to.

Good story:::
 

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This looks like an attack on both his family as well as his lifestyle choices.

Hey, his Mom has to have some credit for letting him keeping on living there and I don;t know about Wests "lifestyle choices"......I don;t stalk him quite like he does me.

http://nodakangler.com/forums/search.php?searchid=1476488

18 out of 20 posts..........really jimmy you gotta find something else to post about.

I guess perhaps maybe it is a slam on his housing choice though so I do apologize for that.

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Holy shit Gabe, it's like this guy followed you around for a week and wrote this article!!!! Or did he just read your posts here on good old NDA:confused:

18. Condescending sarcasm and patronizing tone.


Belittling and degrading a person is a toxic person’s forte and their tone of voice is only one tool in their toolbox. Sarcasm can be a fun mode of communication when both parties are engaged, but narcissists use it chronically as a way to manipulate you and degrade you. If you in any way react to it, you must be “too sensitive.”
Forget that the toxic person constantly has temper tantrums every time their big bad ego is faced with realistic feedback – the victim is the hypersensitive one, apparently. So long as you’re treated like a child and constantly challenged for expressing yourself, you’ll start to develop a sense of hypervigilance about voicing your thoughts and opinions without reprimand. This self-censorship enables the abuser to put in less work in silencing you, because you begin to silence yourself.
Whenever you are met with a condescending demeanor or tone, call it out firmly and assertively. You don’t deserve to be spoken down to like a child – nor should you ever silence yourself to meet the expectation of someone else’s superiority complex.



annnnnndddddd..............

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Good story:::

well alrighty then.
 


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