Child support

[Kurtr]

Buy a microscope and check yourself, then you can also look at bugs and hair and salt, kinda neat!

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The big question is, does it TASTE different? It might suck for your gf/wife to start rejecting her morning gargle....

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Ok so you walk into the clinic, and instead of having a brown paper bag in your hand, with the sample in it, walking next to you is your smoking hot woman wearing a sun dress. Walk up to the counter and girl ask, can I help you and you state you brought your in your semen sample. She looks confused and asks where it is and you put your arm around your woman and state, "Right here, shes keeping it warm for you". At this point your woman pulls down her damp undies from under her sundress and throws them up on the counter. Clinic girls look of shock/horror clearly visible as she faints...

Sounds like the plot to a good movie

 

[Enslow]

child support means a new suburban for momma in many cases i have seen. Im scared stiff of all this.

 

[deleted___account]

child support means a new suburban for momma in many cases i have seen. Im scared stiff of all this.

And that there is where it all begins rut roh

 

[ice head]

I've been through the whole divorce thing, payed child support for over 13 years. The way I see it is that there's not much for a woman to lose. Get to start a new relationship with Mr. wonderful, get the kids the majority of the time and get a large sum of tax free money every month that the kids rarely benefit from, mom and new step dad are living large. Not every situation is like this, but I guarantee 90% are.

 

[deleted___account]

When you hear of women raking in $6k/month in support, gross.

 

[tikkalover]

Don't know about divorce, as I've been married 31 years to a very understanding and wonderful wife. Have there been bumps in the 31 years, you bet there has, but with a little effort from both we always work things out. Hope to live a lot more years together. Have heard good and bad both from people that get one. For those that do get one and put the kids first, good for you, for those that don't put the kids first, my you rot in hell. As for child support, for those that pay what they are supposed to, and when they are supposed to, and give, and do the right thing with it for the child, good for you. Those that don't, my you rot in hell also. As for a vasectomy I've had one for 20 years and it still works the way its supposed to, never had a problem with the procedure or afterwards. We both had to go to the consultation to make sure that's what we wanted to do. When we left, the nurse told me to be there an hour before the appointment, I said what for, she said to take a Valium and give it time to work. I told her I would be there 5 minutes before and wouldn't be taking the Valium, and never had an issue. As I was laying on the table and the doc was doing his thing, I told him he needed a mirror on the ceiling, he said what for, I said so I could see what he was doing! That didn't go over very well.

 

[Davy Crockett]

36 happy years for me and my bride and still going strong , The first 5 years were the hardest but having children bonded our relationship. I feel bad for those who have been through divorce, It doesn't sound fun.

 

[johnr]

I am no quitter, I took an oath in front of friends family and God, but had I stayed married to my first wife ,not just my life but hers and our child's would have been much worse, there was absolutely no saving it, and life is way to short to spend it miserable. My daughter was way better off with us divorcing. I was 21 when I married her mother, and made many mistakes after that too.
I am upset that it didn't work, but by no means do I feel as though I failed, the marriage failed. I got the greatest daughter ever out of it and learned a ton of life lessons.

 

[Davy Crockett]

Your so right johnr, life is too short to live miserable , I have saw couples that can't work it out but yet they stick it out and treat each other's like crap. I think that is more traumatic and damaging to kids than if the parents would just go separate ways.

 

[Enslow]

I will do all the cooking if she is willing to prep brass for me. #dreambig

 

[Brian Renville]

Your so right johnr, life is too short to live miserable , I have saw couples that can't work it out but yet they stick it out and treat each other's like crap. I think that is more traumatic and damaging to kids than if the parents would just go separate ways.

Yep I think I certain cases the best thing parents can do is to teach their kids that miserable is no way to live.

 

[JMF]

I will do all the cooking if she is willing to prep brass for me. #dreambig

Good luck with that, one who preps brass and fleshes coyotes would be my unicorn.

 

[NDSportsman]

I know a guy who pays $1500 a month and is damn glad to do it. He said that's a small price to pay for not having to live with that bi..., err other person anymore!

I know another guy who pays about $750 and he doesn't have an issue with it either because he and his ex are still amicable. She doesn't use the money on herself at all and what doesn't get used goes into a fund for the kid. There are some decent people out there doing it right.

 

[deleted member]

I know more than a couple that pay up upwards of 3k/month too between support and alimony. They are both ok with it too. Cheaper than living with her. And they be way happier too. Got another who pays like 8k/month. He wanted to get rid of her so bad, he actually came up with that amount himself. You know why divorce is so expensive right? Cause it's effing worth it!

 

[shorthairsrus]

Don't know about divorce, as I've been married 31 years to a very understanding and wonderful wife. Have there been bumps in the 31 years, you bet there has, but with a little effort from both we always work things out. Hope to live a lot more years together. Have heard good and bad both from people that get one. For those that do get one and put the kids first, good for you, for those that don't put the kids first, my you rot in hell. As for child support, for those that pay what they are supposed to, and when they are supposed to, and give, and do the right thing with it for the child, good for you. Those that don't, my you rot in hell also.

I haven't experience the D thing TG; its a free world one can do what one wants. My take on the D is you have a 20/80 rule except 80% of them are bad vs. the 20% and the 20% usually do not have kids. Of the ones that I can think of --- about 80% are just plain sour --- they never get along after or during the D, its always a big hassle with anything to do with the kids (ie holidays) the kids end up all over the place, some kids get screwed up because of it, they both end up financially wrecked , they get remarried and once all the lovey dovey stuff goes away they are in the same place as before - just more broke and they see less of the kids.